Trying to Conceive
Wanting a baby
You are pregnant and ready to raise a family. There is a lot to expect and plan. And even if you and your partner are healthy, it can happen quickly, but it can take longer than expected. Experts recommend trying to conceive at least six months a year if you're over 35. If it doesn't happen by then, talk to your doctor.
One month at a time
Your cycle starts over and you are wondering, is this one? If not, when will it happen? It's not easy to predict. And after trying for a while, the ups and downs can get really tough. I don't want anyone to ask me, ''Do you have any news for this month?''
It is unpredictable
There are many things you can do yourself. But fertility isn't always under your control. Everyone is different, but there are certain things that women trying to conceive find particularly difficult to deal with. , may become sensitive.
Time comes first
Most women think that within a few months they will be pregnant and start picking a name for their baby. But it may take longer. Many things can affect this, including age and health. Some women say it feels like a failure when things don't go the way they envisioned. But it's no one's fault. Your doctor can check if you are ready to conceive.
It takes time and effort
Some couples get pregnant without even trying. For others it can be a big project. Women can measure and record their cycles and look for patterns that can help them know when they are most fertile. And if the pregnancy does not occur naturally, they may be considering all options.
Many strong emotions arise when you want a baby. Along with the hope and excitement, months later, it can be disappointing when it doesn't happen. Counseling and support groups can be comforting when you feel upset, afraid, ashamed, or guilty.
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Couples who want to conceive are looking forward to nurseries, first steps, memories, and more together. Many other problems can occur if conception proves to be difficult. You and your partner should ask, 'Are we both healthy? How hard are we going? What other options would you like to consider?
Private or public
You can be very open about your pregnancy hopes, plans, progress, and frustrations. You may want to talk about it and thank your close friends and family when they ask. Or you may want to stay private and avoid asking questions, especially if things aren't going your way.Love and support from the help of friends and family. What and when to tell people is up to you.
When you are trying to conceive, you suddenly become very aware of all the pregnancies and babies around you in real life and on social media. I can:
Excited for your friend, sad that you are not here now, and hopeful for your future. Please do what you have to do.
Decisions can be difficult
Some women who are unable to conceive find that their inability to conceive is due to health problems they were unaware of. Some women are also advised not to become pregnant due to medical problems that can make pregnancy and childbirth very dangerous. We may choose to seek other avenues. B. Fertility Treatment, Adoption or Surrogacy. These decisions can be complex and emotional.
Deferment of expenses
If you're planning on having a baby, you're probably going to have a different view of your budget soon. With pregnancy coming soon, you'll need to save on baby clothes, diapers, crib, possibly daycare, and many other things. Tests, procedures, prescriptions, and even medical facility parking fees add up quickly if you decide to try fertility treatment without doing it.
Do you have any advice? Ask first
If getting pregnant is taking longer than you expected, you may not want to hear suggestions or stories from other people who have gone through a pregnancy, even if it comes from someone with the best of intentions. However, it may feel like it's implying that you're not doing enough or don't know enough. Focus on what you, your partner, and your doctor think is best. Please do so.
What you may not want to hear
''Relax. Stop stressing about it and it will happen.''
''how old you?''
''You need to be in better shape.''
''Everything happens when it should.''
''If you can get pregnant, you can!''
''Time is flowing!''
What should i say
''how are you today?''
''Where is your heart?''
''Do you want to talk about it?''
''I am here for you.''
10 Jan 2023